Success and Failure are the two sides of the same coin in life. You can enjoy taste of success only when you have tasted failure in your life. Read here, how to handle failure is important for successful life?
Few days back, I saw a video of a Swami Ji. Swami Ji was speaking in a event about Top most positions in corporate world globally.
In the event Swami Ji was asking one question from Chief Executive Directors(CEO) of Multinational Companies. Question was ”what you asked from the candidates in interview whom you are paying salary in crores per year”.
As per Swami Ji, candidates who are appearing the interview for the top most position in MNC, have sufficient knowledge about work field. It is obvious they have more than 10 or 15 yrs of work experience. They are already taking a handsome package of current salary. Then about what, you ask them?
Many CEO were failed to answer exactly, to this question of Swami Ji. Then Swami Ji met with CEO of Google, yes, Mr. Sunder Pichai, and asked the same question. As all of you know how much salary Google offers of his employees..( Sunder Pichai is taking $2 million per year.)
Swami Ji asked Mr. Pichai what you ask from the candidate whom you are paying million dollar per year? And Mr. Pichai answered politely to Swami Ji, ”Nothing, But How they Handle their Failure”.
Mr. Pichai added that in other words, we do not see the way, we observe the ‘Attitude’.
Yes, your attitude towards failure in your hard time make you a winner in future.
How Attitude Helps You to Handle the Failure in Life?
Failure is a part of life, and it help us in making a structure of successful life. We all makes mistakes. And we all has failed at some stage of life. However, our attitude towards failure play the major role to pave the path of our life we always want to pursue in future.
Firstly, you should know that your failure is nothing, however, just a wrong way of what have you did, nothing more than that. And keep in mind you failed, just because you have not found the successful way yet.
Your failure is not a part of your identity. You are an individual, whose identity is separate from what he failed to do presently.
Failure gives you a chance to grow in life intellectually. You know that greatest achievers hold numbers of stories of their failure. And Abraham Lincoln is one of them.
Do not allow your failure to dominate on your emotions. Personalizing failure can engulf your confidence and self-esteem. Your pragmatic attitude towards failure is the only way to come up again with more power.
Do Analysis of your Failure Honestly
A deep analysis of failure is a must needed step before moving ahead. Take out yourself from suspending feeling of frustration, anger, blame, and regret.
Emphasis again and again why did you fail?, Think about, what might have turned out a better end result? Was your failure completely out of your control? After collecting the facts, sit back and analysed seriously, what you learned from your failure?
Furthermore, now think how will you use these facts as a cons in your next attempt forward. Thomas Edison, invented the bulb after 10,000 wrong attempts, besides he also quoted his failure in words as ” I have found 10,000 ways of not making a bulb”.
Stop Pretend Like a Victim of Failure all the Time
Once you failed in doing something then do analysis over it. Do not allow yourself being a victim of failure all the time. Past has gone. Try different ways to to get your desired outcome.
How much you will rotate your failure in your mind, Therefore, you will find yourself stuck in an emotional doom-loop. Always keep in mind your past is not in your hand, but you can shape your future with your hands.
The faster you will start think positively forward, the quicker you will able to leave your negativity behind.
Do Not Let You Affect from Others Judgement
What others think about you, let them think. You can not control their thinking about you. However, trained yourself do not let affected from whatever they think about you.
There are thousands of achievers who rejected many times by others, however, they are succeed in their fields.
You know better what are you want from life and what would be the way to make it happen than others. Life is your not theirs. In short your decisions should not be influenced beyond a limit with others.
Make your life succeed on your terms not on others.
Restart with a New Vision
Failure show you a new path to restart with a new vision again. It does not possible you will not face failure in life. Failure will come surely on your way, but how you will handle it is all upon on your vision and attitude.
Just changing your vision can expansive the way of your success in life. Your failure can turn as the biggest lesson for you when you change your vision. Don’t flow with your failure, learn to make a dam over it.
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